quote from Rhondavena
​"It's like having an infant again.  All my friends know when I am dull-witted and yawning a lot, I am probably refeeding someone.  When I fall asleep during meetings, while on the phone and can't watch a tv-show, I am probably refeeding someone.  When I don't answer the phone, because I am sleeping through the ring, I am refeeding someone."